Use a "speaker/listener" technique to discuss new concerns without blame.
Modern research, particularly from The Gottman Institute , identifies critical factors that predict marital success or failure. 1 : Marriage
Share five things you appreciated about your partner that week. Successes: Discuss what went well since the last meeting. Use a "speaker/listener" technique to discuss new concerns
“One of the gentlemen stated: “We did not let anything get old in our marriage so that it could have a chance to ruin our lives. We would just say how we felt in the first place, if there was any hard feelings or angriness, we would tell each other about it...” National Institutes of Health (.gov) · 5 years ago Successes: Discuss what went well since the last meeting
Marriage by Paul David Tripp // Book Review
Maintaining a foundation of affection and respect.