When you stop caring about the things that don't matter, you finally have the energy for the things that do.
We all have that one person we text who takes three business days to respond with a "lol." Life is too short to be the only person keeping a connection on life support. If they aren't matching your energy, put that obligation on the F**k-It List and move on. 4. End the "Hustle" Obsession
"I should enjoy hiking." "I should read more classic literature." "I should be more of a morning person."If you’ve spent a decade trying to like something just because it seems "better," put it on the list. If you hate kale, stop eating kale. If you’d rather watch a Rotten Tomatoes certified "rotten" comedy than a three-hour historical epic, do it. Your free time isn't a performance. 3. Release the One-Sided Friendships
You can be the juiciest peach in the world, and there will still be someone who hates peaches. Trying to win over your critics is a treadmill to nowhere. Put "being liked by everyone" at the very top of your F**k-It List.
